You become suddenly shy and reserved, when you in the company of a cute guy? Have you tried, say smart things, in order to get his attention, but your mind a blank, when you see him? This is some of the frustration you, because you usually do so talkative? The face of an incredibly hot guy, and sometimes can be the most confident girl, loses her cool. Here are a few things you can try next time you see him the ball rolling.
Be prepared.
First, see if you already know about him. If this is a guy from work, what you have heard of him? He enjoyed hobbies? He play? Weekend he do? If it is a complete stranger, you are on your street by regularly checking out how he's wearing. To play? He always had a fishing rod it? He carries a duffel bag?
These will bring about a topic, you can ask him. Think about the problem, it is easy to let him talk for a while. If you can get to ask a question, he stopped and would be happy to talk to you, then all you have to do is relax and listen. A few minutes later, you should be nervous, low tide, which will allow you to ask questions, or throw your own views in the topic.
You will be surprised to see how small it is sometimes necessary. Even basic things about the weather, you can open the entire conversation.
Do not be discouraged, will not result in a grand conversation lasted a few hours the first attempt. If you successfully exchange a few pleasantries one day, your nerves will be a new attempt easier calm. Slowly, you can spend time talking to him to upgrade, before you know it tension was gone, and you say that cute guy, though his old friend.
